Showing posts with label loss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label loss. Show all posts

Thursday, June 26, 2008

..that he lay down his life for his…

In a world of tension and breakdown it is necessary for there to be those who seek to integrate their inner lives not by avoiding anguish and running away from problems, but by facing them in their naked reality and in their ordinariness.

Does he want Money?
Does he want Fame?
Does he want Power?
For some Men these things are much important...
But for some, what he really want is Love,
Because they know that getting the first three is much easier than Love...

Well, it seems to me that the best relationships-- the ones that last-- are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.
Relationships--of all kinds--are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

"Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved"

To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with..
My life is good but sometimes I'm just overwhelmed with a feeling that I'm missing something or someone in my life.
I wish nobody goes through the emotional drains of being lonely..
Buena suerte` amigos..(Good Luck frens)

PS : Whats the longest you've gone without talking?
PPS : the fearful silence surrounds my mind.
PPPS : Hablo poco espanol (I speak little Spanish as I started attending the classes)

Sunday, February 17, 2008

The helluva week of my life


The most sorrowful week of mine just passed...
Last week was just meant to lose for me..

* People (SPM/PM/PA) who were running around full of garbage ( full of frustration, full of anger & full of disappointment) piled up & needed a place to dump it.. I was the one these people chose to dump on.
What should I do, shouldn't I take it personally. Is that I need to just smile , wave wish them well & move on.

* Second thing, I lost my spectacles in the meeting room on thursday..
should I again blame my carelessness for not remembering it before I left the room.

* Third blunder of week- one of my team-mate wanted a Nokia series charger on thursday & she borrowed mine as I carry it along everyday. On friday when I ask her to return it back, I was taken back by her response... Sorry, I left it at my desk over-nite & now I am not able to find it anywhere.. Gaaaaawsh!! is it my mistake to lend things in courtesy. My phone is off since 2 days now as I was in no mood to buy a new charger, neither I had patience to get one.
How do I move on? I decided not to entertain any services anymore.. Am I wrong?

* The fourth one - I was returning back from guitar classes in the eveningby bus, as my cousin wanted my bike for some urgent work. So I commuted using the BMTC bus to my classes, I remember taking the ticket from the conductor of the bus & placing my wallet back into the bag. Thats it, I later realised the wallet had been stolen. Now my PAN Card, 2 wheeler + 4 wheeler License, My Credit + Debit cards, & lots of shopping cards from Shoppers Stop, West-side, Pantaloons have been lost. With that I lost the minting points as well I guess.. I blocked my debit & credit cards, but I have to approach the police for my lost PAN & DL Cards, I dont know but I am horrified by the name POLICE...
Why did the thief choose only me to get his earnings for the day.. why me?

* Top of all these, the important thing I lost was my PEACE OF MIND following all these incidents

PS: Off-late I find it difficult to recollect things.. is it short-term memory loss
PPS: Haven't told papa that I have lost my wallet or else will have a nice round of scoldings & he will never trust me.. will have to bear those repeating words of caution everytime I step out of my house... which would be boring.. so havent told him :(
PPPS: What do I do? Believe that everything happens for a reasons aaargh!! too much
PPPPS: Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.. but I have a reason to enchant for which I looking forward this week :) (secret)